How to Pick Up Girls - Tips

Learning how to pick up girls is all about practice, practice, practice. Let me repeat myself, practice is the main factor in picking up women. It sounds simple, but actually, it's not. First off, learn what your strengths and weaknesses are. Are you a good dancer, talk, drinker, singer? Focus on these strengths and use them to your advantage.

"Well what if I don't HAVE any strengths or zero game when picking up girls?" Everyone has a least one strength that they can focus on. If you feel like you don't have any positive characteristics, then we need to talk about my next topic, which is confidence. I would say confidence trumps being cute or handsome any day of the week. A confident man that is average looking, has great game and can converse well with a girl will have MUCH BETTER odds than the good looking guy with no game and no conversation skills. Confidence is the KEY to success when learning how to pickup girls. Confidence is shown through body language (i.e. posture, how you walk), how you talk and your appearance. Building up confidence comes with time and successful pickups.

Nothing is built in one day and same with your game (and mine). How do you build confidence? Start off by changing your image. What do you wear when you go out? Do you think you look good? Dress appropriately and you'll feel better about yourself. Taking care of your appearance is the first step in learning how to appear confident. The better you look, the more confidence you're going to have and the women will sense that.

Have you heard people say to you "just be yourself"? Well, don't do it. Letting a girl see your "real" self is a gradual process and should not be shown when trying to pick up girls. You need to be interesting and do it FAST. People have short attention spans and you might only have one chance to impress that girl that's in front of you. Girls like funny guys, guys that can communicate well and look like they're having a good time get the girls. Initiating conversation is the hardest part of picking up a girl. Are you afraid of being rejected? Think to yourself "what do you have to lose" if you talk with that girl. You need to relax, this also relates with being confident. If your nervous and start to fidget, the girl that you're talking to is going to be nervous as well and think that there's some sort of problem. If you're calm and show that you're a confident man, the girl that you're talking to is going to trust you more which will cause her to be more submissive to your commands. Ask her open ended questions and seem interested in what you have to say. If her answers to all of your questions are yes or no, then you're not asking open ended questions dummy. Make sure you are listening to what she has to say and feed off of her answers. Let one question turn into multiple questions as the conversation flows naturally. If you follow these steps you will eventually learn how to pick up girls.

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