Every guy I know has had a random conversation with a woman he was interested in. Usually they can recall exactly what the girl looked like, often because they felt they missed a unique opportunity. I've seen the look that crosses their face, for the briefest of moments, one of regret. Regret is a powerful feeling. It can create echoes of itself for years interfering with new opportunities and creating feelings of doubt.
Rather than let that happen, I'm going to give up the two best techniques for getting her number. These two methods are by far the best techniques that I've ever come across. These are worth trying just to see them in action. It's amazing. If a girl has any interest at all in you, both of these techniques will work.
Best of all, they remove 95% of the risk involved in asking a girl for her number.
I think every guy in the world wants a safe way to ask a girl for her number. These two methods are as safe as it gets. It's about getting a number on your terms rather than making the whole conversation about her. Women actually feel uncomfortable when it's all about them. By using these two techniques you allow her to relax and just give the number without worrying about anything else. Women love it if a guy can take away all the anxiety in a situation. Ask them if you don't believe me!
Number Close #1 - Ask her, "Do you have email?" When she says yes, (because who doesn't?) then just pull out a slip of paper and a pen and thrust it at her... AS IF SHE HAS ALREADY AGREED TO GIVE IT TO YOU! You don't look uncomfortable and so she doesn't get anxious. If she pauses then say, "Write it down." Don't explain. This works, like, a thousand percent!!!!
Here's the number part...
When she's writing down the email add, "Write your number down, too." Just like that. Nothing elaborate. If you've had a good conversation she WANTS to give it to you. She's hoping for something more than email. But you have to take the action. And, lucky for you, this is a zero risk way to ask and it makes you look the most attractive. If she says, "No." or "I'm not ready for that." Just reply, "I'm the most interesting guy you're going to meet this month but if you want to take it slow: okay. It's weird but okay." Then hold out your hand for the paper. Take the paper and then push your hand out to shake.
When she shakes it say, "Wow, you have an interesting energy. (Pretend to shake it off.) Talk to you later, sunshine." Let go of her hand and walk away. Boom!
Here's number two. My favorite.
Number Close #2 - Get your phone out, look at the phone and say, "What's your name again?" She will reply with her name. You enter it into your phone in the following way. While saying the letters, "E-M-I-L-Y." Stop at the last and, while still still looking at your phone, say, "And your number?" If she is at all interested in you... she will hurry to add her number. Plus, it's like she's already given you permission by agreeing to give you her name again, especially if she corrects the spelling. Boom. Just that easy. These should have top secret clearance because these work better than some of the United State's most deadly weapons!
Good luck.
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